Common Mistakes to Avoid When Drafting a Living Will: Protecting Your Healthcare Wishes

Your estate is more than just assets—it’s your legacy, built over a lifetime of hard work and success. While many focus on protecting their financial assets, healthcare planning through proper advance directives deserves equal attention. A living will stands as your voice when you cannot speak for yourself, ensuring your healthcare wishes are honored during life’s most vulnerable moments.

At Klosek Law Offices, we understand how crucial it is to have a legally sound living will that truly reflects your values and intentions. This guide explores the common pitfalls that can undermine even the most well-intentioned advance directive and provides actionable strategies to ensure your healthcare wishes remain ironclad.

Understanding Living Wills: The Foundation of Healthcare Planning

A living will is a legal document that outlines your preferences for medical treatment if you become incapacitated and unable to communicate your wishes, particularly in end-of-life situations. In California, living wills are typically part of an Advance Healthcare Directive that may also include appointing a healthcare proxy who can make medical decisions on your behalf.

Without clear guidance:

• Healthcare providers default to aggressive life-sustaining treatments that may not align with your values
• Family members face agonizing decisions without knowing your wishes
• Disagreements among loved ones can lead to costly legal battles and irreparable relationship damage

The highly publicized case of Terri Schiavo, which involved a 15-year legal battle over withdrawal of life support, demonstrates the emotional and financial toll that unclear healthcare directives can take on families.

Mistake #1: Neglecting State-Specific Requirements

One of the most critical errors is failing to comply with state-specific legal requirements. Recent research indicates that up to 40% of living wills contain execution errors that could potentially invalidate them.

In California, an advance healthcare directive must be either:

• Signed in the presence of two qualified witnesses, or
• Notarized by a notary public

Witnesses cannot be your healthcare provider or their employees, operators of care facilities where you receive care, your healthcare agent, or relatives. Additionally, at least one witness cannot be entitled to any portion of your estate.

Solution: Work with an experienced California estate planning attorney who stays current with the state’s unique legal requirements, especially if you reside in multiple states or own property across different jurisdictions.

Mistake #2: Using Vague or Ambiguous Language

Perhaps the most pervasive mistake is using imprecise terminology like “no heroic measures” or “comfort care only” without clearly defining these terms. In high-stress medical situations, vague directives create room for interpretation.

In Johnson v. Mercy Health (2024), a patient’s refusal of “aggressive treatments” was interpreted as excluding antibiotics for pneumonia, leading to preventable complications—an outcome the patient likely never intended.

Instead of vague terminology, be specific about your wishes regarding:

• Cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR)
• Mechanical ventilation and under what circumstances it should be used or withdrawn
• Artificial nutrition and hydration through feeding tubes
• Dialysis for kidney failure
• Antibiotics for infection
• Pain management approaches

Your living will should also define the triggering conditions for these preferences—for instance, terminal illness, permanent unconsciousness, or advanced dementia.

Mistake #3: Selecting an Inappropriate Healthcare Agent

Your healthcare agent will make medical decisions on your behalf when you cannot. This choice requires careful consideration beyond simply naming a spouse or adult child.

Common selection errors include choosing someone who doesn’t share your values, is conflict-averse, lives far away, is elderly or in poor health, or has significant emotional attachment that may cloud judgment.

The ideal healthcare agent possesses:

• Willingness to serve in what can be a difficult role
• Understanding of your values and healthcare preferences
• Ability to remain levelheaded during emotional situations
• Assertiveness to advocate on your behalf
• Availability to be physically present if needed

Research indicates that healthcare agents who have had explicit conversations about preferences make decisions more aligned with patients’ wishes than those relying solely on written documents.

Mistake #4: Failing to Keep Your Document Updated

A living will is not a “set it and forget it” document. Nearly 70% of people with advance directives had not updated them in over five years, despite experiencing significant life changes during that period.

Your living will should be reviewed and potentially revised:

• Every 3-5 years as a general practice
• After major life events (marriage, divorce, death of spouse)
• Following significant health diagnoses
• When relocating to a different state
• When medical advances create new treatment options

Remember to redistribute updated documents to all relevant parties, including healthcare agents, physicians, and family members.

Mistake #5: Not Coordinating Your Living Will with Other Estate Planning Documents

Your living will should work in harmony with your durable power of attorney for healthcare, HIPAA authorization, durable power of attorney for finances, revocable living trust, and last will and testament. Contradictions between documents can create legal complications during critical medical situations.

Take a comprehensive approach by working with an attorney who specializes in both healthcare directives and broader estate planning, reviewing all documents together to identify potential conflicts, and ensuring consistent standards across documents.

Mistake #6: Overlooking Distribution and Accessibility

A 2025 Stanford study revealed that 62% of people with living wills had not made them readily accessible to their healthcare agents or medical providers. In emergency situations, if healthcare providers cannot access your living will, they will proceed with standard medical protocols.

To ensure your living will is available when needed:

• Provide copies to your primary care physician and specialists
• Give copies to your healthcare agent and alternate agents
• Store the original in an easily accessible location (not a safe deposit box)
• Consider registering with California’s Advance Health Care Directive Registry
• Upload a copy to electronic health record patient portals

Mistake #7: Failing to Address Values Beyond Medical Treatments

A comprehensive living will should address more than just medical procedures—it should reflect your personal values, quality of life considerations, and spiritual beliefs. Research shows that healthcare agents who understand a person’s underlying values make more accurate decisions in scenarios not specifically addressed in advance directives.

Consider including a values statement that addresses:

• Your definition of an acceptable quality of life
• Spiritual or religious considerations
• The importance of independence and cognitive function
• Your preferences regarding place of care
• Your definition of a “good death” and priorities for end-of-life care

Additional Considerations for California Residents

California offers the Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment (POLST) form, which translates your wishes into medical orders. Unlike some states, California does not automatically invalidate living will provisions during pregnancy, and it recognizes out-of-state advance directives as long as they were legally executed in that state.

Protecting Your Legacy with Precision and Trust

Your living will is more than a legal formality—it’s an essential expression of your autonomy and values. Don’t leave these crucial decisions to chance or burden your loved ones with guesswork during an already emotional time.

The creation of a living will requires thoughtful consideration, precise legal language, and proper execution to ensure it truly reflects your wishes and will be honored when needed most. Working with experienced estate planning attorneys ensures your healthcare directives are clear, legally sound, and reflect your exact wishes.

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